As St. Louis area dietitian nutritionists who specialize in the treatment of eating disorders, we want to provide our readers with practical tips on how to manage situations that can cause discomfort, anxiety, and stress. One of those is going to restaurants.
Picture a situation where it's your friend's birthday and they'd like to go to a new restaurant that opened up. It's pretty common, right? And it should be a fun time! However for those who are in treatment for and are recovering from disordered eating and/or an eating disorder, social events involving food can bring up some unpleasant feelings. Let's dive into more how we can shift and navigate our thoughts around these situations.
Tips for Eating Out at Restaurants in Eating Disorder Recovery
Plan Ahead: Look at the menu online. Choose what you're going to order BEFORE going to the restaurant. This choice can align with your diet and treatment plan for your ongoing recovery. Talk to your recovery coach to prepare for your restaurant meal.
Eat with a Supportive Group: Going out to eat is challenging. Your first experiences should be with a supportive group of friends and/or family who understand that you might struggle and feel uncomfortable eating in front of others.
Keep Things Fun: Talk about music, movies, your favorite memories together. Keep conversation light so you don't add more stress to the meal. And hey, food isn't just fuel - it's an experience! Sharing a meal with friends or family isn't just about what's on your plate; it's about creating memories and bonding over flavors and stories. Whether you're trying a new restaurant or cooking at home, food brings people together in ways that are pretty special.
Don't Look at the Nutrition Chart: If possible, don't look at the nutrition chart that shows calories, sugars, fats, etc. You've already chosen when you're going to eat (step one). There's no need for more information.
Challenge Your Negative Thoughts About Food: A big part of recovery is contantly challenging the thoughts we've developed about food over the years. This can be exhausting, and it is incredibly important to heal the relationship we have with food and body. When we choose foods rich in nutrients, we're not just feeding our bodies; we're also giving our brains a boost. Think of it as a way to stay sharp and focused, whether you're studying, working, or just enjoying life.
So, next time you look at a menu, think beyond the calories. Consider how the food will make you feel energized and ready to take on the day. Enjoy the tastes, textures, and the company. It's all part of a living a balanced and fulfilling life!
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